what if *that* is not the real problem?
I just wrapped my final round of calls yesterday with the seven women who participated in my Watch Me Work experiment.
for eight weeks, they watched me consult each of their homes: different floor plans, different dynamics, different objectives.
and one thing that every single one of them realized in our conversations: we tend to think Feng Shui is about the recommendation, but it isn’t. it’s understanding what the home and the people actually need.
here’s why that matters…
one woman wanted more clients and greater financial ease. do we ‘just’ point her toward the Wealth corner? no. instead, we spent most of our conversation talking about something entirely different. as she described her life, a pattern emerged: she’d spent years taking care of other people. and when she bought her century-old home…without realizing it…she’d repeated the pattern. she was stepping into another supporting role. so I turned the question around: how can your home begin supporting you? and everything we talked about after that grew from the answer to that one question.
another woman wanted love, business growth, and greater visibility. three completely different objectives, yet again, one pattern kept showing up: she is constantly in motion – always doing, planning, creating, and moving toward the next thing. her home doesn’t need to help her hustle harder. its role is to help her slow down long enough to receive what she was already working so hard to create. so that’s what we focused on: creating the conditions where support, the *right* opportunities, and romance could actually land.
another woman wanted to strengthen their retirement and increase bookings for a vacation rental. most people would assume the assignment is ‘more wealth activations.’ instead, we discussed what was hanging on her walls – and one of the questions became: how can your home tell the story of where you’re headed? we shifted the conversation, and the shui recommendations naturally followed.
over eight weeks, I delivered seven reports, and not a single one mirrored another. so, the next time you read a tip telling you to buy the crystal, place the plant, or hang the mirror…
pause, and ask yourself three questions:
what am I actually responding to?
does this adjustment support the outcome I want?
what is my contribution to creating that outcome?
that’s the conversation where your outcome actually lives. and you’ll know you’ve found the sweet spot in Feng Shui when your intentions and your home shui begin working in the same direction because the changes you make start making sense.
has this newsletter left you with more questions than answers? good! better questions almost always lead to better shui, babe! xo
